Monday, July 20, 2009

Random Thoughts...

Wow, it's been a month since my last post. Who said that summer is filled with "lazy days"? Certainly not someone who had a full-time job, 3 active kids, and a hubby who never seems to be around. The Army demands so much of his time lately.

So much has happened in the last month. Not big, big things. Just life.

We had visitors for 2 weeks in June. Jon's sister, her hubby and 2 teenage girls. (I'll keep their names private since I didn't ask permission to post about them...) I guess because we don't see them everyday, I was unprepared. These girls are so grown and beautiful! The oldest drives now, which is heart-wrenching for me. I first met her when she was around 8 months old. Man does time fly! They were a lot of fun to be around. Everyday we were busy! (We planned it that way - trying to fit in as much sightseeing/activity/etc. as possible...) I hope they had as much fun as we did.

I'll post some of the pictures later, in a slideshow. Blogger makes it a lot harder to post pictures than I'd like...

As well as time with the kids, I really feel that Jon's sister and I got some QT (quality-time) in, where we could. I thank her for that. Just little conversations here and there, but it's been a long time since we've been able to do that. Since I'm the oldest in my family, she is the closest to an older sister that I will ever have. She may not know (until she reads this) that I am so incredibly grateful for that. We shared stories with each other, and the kids. It was neat to hear her tell my children the story of how Jon and I spent a weekend in his hometown, after dating only 2 months or so. As we drove away, back to college, Jon's mom declared that we were going to spend our lives together, that I was the person Jon would choose to share his life. I've heard this story before, but for some reason it sounded so much more beautiful this time. And hearing it with my children gave it a whole new meaning.

After our guests left, we had a crazy fun July 4th bbq. Jon loves to throw a get-together, and he decided at the last minute to gather the neighbors and have everyone over that didn't already have plans. We probably had 35 people here. Alissa organized Bingo (with prizes from Target!), we had wine and great food, and Jon gave us a great fireworks show when the sun went down. It was a marvelous time with friends - our Hawaii 'Ohana. The only thing missing was Jay and Lucie. I hope they know, as their house still sits empty and untouched, that they are truly missed (physically).

July itself has just been full of life events - doctor/dentist appointments, Leadership Camp for Alissa, back-to-school preparations, and fitting in as much time together as we can.

Yesterday Jon and I took Alissa to the new Harry Potter movie. It was so sweet, the 3 of us. We haven't done that since 2002! It was a fun time, a superb movie, and great bonding with my oldest child. I'm so grateful for those moments, knowing that soon she ventures out on her own and I won't be able to see her as much as I'd like.

Work is still the same - this move looming over my head and consuming all my thoughts. (Long story short: my job, and those of my 40+ teammates, are moving to Iowa. If you choose not to move, you will most likely find yourself unemployed.) Obviously I cannot move without the Army's permission, at least not for another 5-7 years. So, I pray everyday for a positive outcome - hopefully a reprieve, somehow. I do like working for my employer so much, and I don't want it to end. I don't even care about raises, or job titles, or any of that. I care about career longevity and being able to continue to work from home. That means more to me than anything, to be able to work from home until Jon retires. I have never wanted anything more. (well, except for a happy, healthy, loving family, which I already have) I hope that God hears my prayers and helps me find the cloud's silver lining...

And lastly, it's time to start planning the next move. Seems to soon, yes? I agree. I can't believe 18 months have come and gone. But, it's time to decide. Do we leave early or stay longer? There are pros and cons to each. And everytime I think I have my mind made up, we reconsider the other option. It's the toughest decision we've had to face regarding a move. Usually the Army decides for us, and whatever they decide we just go with. But this time, with a high-schooler, and a Class President at that, we have more to consider than in moves past. For the first time, Alissa's position in life really takes a big precedence in what we decide. We've known that since 2007, that we'd have to make a decision one way or the other. But who knew the decision would be this hard? I pray everyday for God's assistance with this one, because there are so many factors - will I get to stay employed with my current employer? Will Jon be promoted next year as we hope and expect? Will Alissa want to try for Class President again next year? My employment plays a huge factor. I pray that it works out in our favor, no matter whether we decide to move or stay. Staying employed with them is in my prayers everyday.

If we move, we'll be looking to move in about 11 months. Seems so crazy to hear those words out loud. I mean, we move on average every 2 1/2 to 3 years, so this shouldn't be a shock, but since the kids are older, this potential move will be hard. In addition, we have met some amazing people here. I mean people who I hope will be in our lives forever, even though we'll never be neighbors again, and maybe never even live in the same part of the country! I believe that our Hawaii experience has been exponentially greater because we met these families and opened our homes and hearts to them. It's made our time in Hawaii that much more wonderful, and that much more special.

So, hopefully as the kids get back into school (next week!!!), I will be able to get back to more regular posting. I fully intend to get back to it. It's therapeutic for me, and a great reminder of our adventures over the last year and a half.

Happy Monday!

2 comments:

RangersGirl said...

Holy Cow! They start school next week?! Wow.

Jackie is pretty cool. I'm so glad to hear you guys had a great visit. You are pretty close to your sisters too - - I wish I had that. You are very lucky.

18 months has gone by quickly. I was just thinking about how fast the summer was going but then realized that the whole year has just zipped by.

I'll pray for your move decision here too.

Krysti said...

Our whole family had a wonderful time! Memories to treasure for a lifetime! Someday, the kids will look back and laugh at all of us! All the kids had a great time bonding together! The adults all had fun too! We sure packed all of our vacation time full of the best fun and family we could!

I've been trying to work on pictures, notecards for a photo album and a short power point to share with everyone....

Life is moving at a fast pace for all of us! As hard as I know both Tiffany and I worked in advance to prepare for before, during, and after vacation pace of life....I'm not leading the pack of this race in time! I am holding my own mid-stream...

Time certainly does not wait on any of us...but it does give us great perspective for who we want to be and where we want to go and how to share it with the most people as positively and sincerely as humanly possible. These are the times during the dash that are treasured. :)

I too will keep praying for guidance, perserverance, and understanding for the path that God has blessed before our whole family! No matter where God takes you...the Chaos of Cousins is coming to visit! :)

Love, Jackie